Still going through DM's papers that were stored in the chest of drawers. I am down to the last 10 or so files. I've just torn up all the letters I had written to her and my step-dad, that they had saved. Next file to go through - all the cards I had given her for birthdays, etc. I separated out the ones DD had given her, but DD thinks I should toss those, as well.
Obviously, this is still a little hard for me. Equally obviously, I'll be continuing with this room into next month!