hi Hudbud: How's your little guy adjusting to his new 'big boy' bed? I recall when our guys were little the easiest way to cope was to keep it simple. Seasonal clothes that fit were in the bureau, those they had outgrown were removed to a box, those not yet worn were handy in a bin under their beds.
We rotated toys and books [due to age and gifts] so that they were fun and manageable. It's fun to sit on the floor and tell a made-up story about a little boy called _______who was so-ooo big he could put away his hot wheels, or yellow lego, or [whatever toys are favorites] Whenever all the 'work' was done, it was pj time so dad could read a story.
The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that does come their way.